待人处事不是给人压力、给人逼迫，就能成功，就能获胜，疾言厉色或者使用暴力，是无法令人心服口服的，反而是要给人温暖、安详、以尊重、爱语，让人心生欢喜、心悦诚服，才是胜利者。
It isn't right that you can win a game by clamping down or using violence, it can not make people sincerely convinced. You should provide warmth and sedateness so that people will be sincerely convinced.
英文版《两个朋友和熊的故事》（伊索寓言）
two friends were walking along a road,suddenly encountered a bear, one of the first to lightning immediately climbed a tree and hid, while the other saw no hope of escape, he had an idea lying on the ground, tightly hold your breath, pretending to die . it is said that bears do not eat the dead. bear went up to him, sniffed with his nose on his face, turned away. after hiding in the trees were down, asked the bear in his ear something. the man gently replied: bear tell me, in the future should be careful, do not and can not be fair-weather friends who walk together. this story illustrates, not fair-weather people are not real friends.
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英语小故事
一篇英语寓言，下面是全文的中英对照，可以看看：）~~
Belling the cat(系铃于猫)
Long ago, there was a big cat in the house. He caught many mice while they were stealing food.
One day the mice had a meeting to talk about the way to deal with their common enemy. Some said this, and some said that.
At last a young mouse got up, and said that he had
a good idea.
We could tie a bell around the neck of the cat. Then when he comes near, we can hear the sound of the bell, and run away.
Everyone approved of this proposal, but an old wise mouse got up and said, That is all very well, but who will tie the bell to the cat? The mice looked at each other, but nobody spoke.
从前，一所房子里面有一只大猫，他抓住了很多偷东西的老鼠。
一天，老鼠在一起开会商量如何对付他们共同的敌人。会上大家各有各的主张，最后，一只小老鼠站出来说他有一个好主意。
“我们可以在猫的脖子上绑一个铃铛，那么如果他来到附近，我们听到铃声就可以马上逃跑。”
大家都赞同这个建议，这时一只聪明的老耗子站出来说：“这的确是个绝妙的主意，但是谁来给猫的脖子上绑铃铛呢？”老鼠们面面相觑，谁也没有说话。
寓意: 有些事情说起来容易，做起来却很难。